I’m pleased to report that Rowan’s pressure sore on his remaining elbow is healing over, and a callus of sorts forming. I am leaving the dressing on a for another week, but will continue to provide him with some protection and padding for the foreseeable future. I’m thinking of shopping around for some thick opaque cotton stockings that I could cut to make a few tubes of thick but breathable fabric … perhaps kid-sizes might be a better bet, and I am more likely to find 100% cotton there too, I’d imagine. Greys have very skinny, bony legs, so I will need to give it some thought.
He continues to wear a heavy cotton T shirt … his coat is growing back from where it was shaved for the op (7 weeks ago now) but the darker guard hairs don’t seem to be showing as yet; the patch is quite blonde in comparison with his red tan colouration elsewhere. Anyway, I think he must feel the cold … the clocks went back last week and the days are growing shorter. It has been strangely mild of late, although the word is that we’re facing another hard winter. There are certainly a LOT of berries in the hedgerows, which is usually taken as an indication … country lore says it presages cold winters … though I would imagine it reflects past weather conditions, rather than a predictor of future ones! Whatever, we have had torrential rain for most of the last couple of weeks; the ground is sodden and I’m terrified of Rowan slipping on the mud, especially after the chickens have had a sortie. (Though the girls bustle about like gossiping matrons, their standard of cleanliness would shame even the most slovenly housewife!)
We’ve had a bit of a battle of wills over the last week. Rowan had got very used to being fed choicest morsels of food, and was NOT impressed when I tried to reintroduce the tinned meat he’d always wolfed down. The vet said that he could stand a couple of days on low rations, so I have been putting food down, then picking it up after half an hour, to re-present it at dinner time. It’s worked, but I do feel guilty ….
Last weekend my husband & I drove North to visit parents. We have not been North for a few months, given all the upset and uncertainty over Rowan. I was distressed when both my Mother and my brother both said that in my shoes they’d have had Ro PTS. I wasn’t especially surprised by my Ma, as I knew she has always taken that tack … when I was a tot she had my (first) pet cat PTS because she’d lost her eye in an accident. But my brother has always doted on Rowan, and I was surprised he took the same line. His reasoning seems to be that it was a shame for Rowan, and I tried to explain some key points, namely, a) we took the leg and the intense pain away, b) that Rowan doesn’t remember having another leg nor does he fret over its loss, and c) he lives in the present and so should we. He seemed to hear what I said, but there again, he has never kept a pet since he left home, 30 odd years ago. I was surprised how upset I was. Mother always trots out, “You have to be cruel to be kind.” tho I am not 100% sure what she means by that, nor, I suspect, is she. Ah well, takes her sort to make all sorts and all sorts to make the world go round I suppose!
Thanks for listening.
Polly, Rowan & Willow XXX
Edited to add: I meant to mention that when I took him to the vet on Monday, he said that Rowan was one of the happiest dogs he can remember, and that he is the perfect patient, standing still and letting people do what they need. He said he had been a little doubtful that Ro would cope with an amputation, but that he’s delighted by how resilient Rowan has proved to be, and anyone seeing the joy in Ro’s face when he greets people couldn’t help but be moved by him. He’s made the vet rethink some of his ideas about big dogs. Rowan absolutely loves going to the vet, and literally dragged me into the consulting room when we were called. He gets a lot of attention form other clients, both because of his size and beauty and the op.
Pawesome! It’s amazing how these tripawd dogs serve as a teaching tool to people who think that an amputation is the end of the life for a dog. Cadence pulls me down the street on her three legs. She is strong! And even the vets told me they were surprised how strong she is on 3 legs when they took her by the leash and she started pulling away. You have to forgive your mum. They just don’t know. You really have to have one to understand I guess. Sometimes I even forget Cadence has three legs. She seems her normal energetic self to me. There have even been times when people who meet her for the first time don’t even notice she has 3 legs until she turns a certain way. As I always say: Just keep doing what you are doing. And I am glad the sore is healing.
Cadence’s Mom
ro, we are so very happy to hear how well you are doing, glad that elbow is finally callousing over (it took us a while too as you know). it will take a while for your hair to all grow in…we were probably at 6 or so months before gayle’s guard hairs were in and she just looked smooth all the way down.
as for the neigh-sayers… sorry your family isn’t more supportive, we’ve had mixed results on this side of the pond as well. either folks understand us, or they don’t. it’s their loss if they have never know the joy of loving another sentient being, and being loved for just being who you are. give ro a big hug for us, and keep that handsome boy warm as the cold weather comes!!
charon & gayle
Silly Gayle… she must have been too shy to mention that we posted her pawesome plans for making homemade dog elbow pads in the Tripawds Downloads blog! 🙂
I did look at Gayle’s model, trouble is Ro tends to bite through webbing straps, so I’d prefer something that looks a bit like a 1980’s legwarmer!